Mentorđź’śMySister

Authentic Women, Authentic Resolve, Authentic Connection.

Category: “the hard stuff”

  • So I don’t write on forgiveness often. But I do read about it. And I do have conversations on it. Because its complex. And recently I had a conversation with a group of people about it and I had an epiphany : Forgiveness is an act of self-love. That it’s a gift to myself to…

  • feelings . so important to feel. it helps you solve problems.

  • Happiness has been a journey for me. I wrote this on my post today , and boy …was I surprised what I wrote! I didn’t expect to write about the “flavor” of my happiness. I laugh inside because I didn’t expect “Happiness” to have a flavor… (haha) … But it does! Happiness has a taste…

  • As I look back on my life, I’ve had my share of unhealthy relationships. I believe the hardest part during this season of life for me was discerning was what was really “healthy” and what was really “unhealthy”. I don’t really know that Ii had been taught that by example. I believe I was simply…

  • What keeps you motivated? I remember grappling with this question over a period of time- maybe ten years. I didn’t realize I was ‘grappling’ because I was sincerely depressed in my life. it’s extremely hard to be happy when life sucks. I was so discouraged with myself. I couldn’t remain motivated. But I was also…

  • Clarity. It’s not easy to achieve. I mean should we even make it a goal? When 2019 happened, I initially didn’t desire clarity. I asked for something else. In fact, that word is a slight misnomer now, because Clarity assumed its position and took a hold of my destiny like none other . “For sure,…

  • March 21, 2019 Hope. It’s so obscure sometimes. Like … how do you stay hopeful? Is it Friends that help you to remain hopeful? Is there a routine that’s involved? Is there something elusive about hope? Does a lack of it, make us cry? Make us sad? Is it reachable? How do you know when…

  • How did I  get here? Ever ask yourself that  question? I once  thought  about writing on  Intuition and Love a while  ago.  But I  wasn’t ready.  I had to decide how transparent I wanted to be. Then I realized that I needed to see how the two overlap. I didn’t have enough knowledge.  Or so…

  • I have moved  approximately nine times in my life.  I  know it sounds like a lot, but  several of those moves were  within state and  needed for job transition . Doesn’t make it any any easier, nor  does it make it  less of an issue.  I  have to admit – I don’t really lke moving…

  • Indwelling. Is there such a word? I was reading today in the Word how being in fellowship with friends and others and also God-we learn how to be built up, and grow. We make more room for growth by allowing for friendships; and sometimes those friendships have a God-nature, if you will that comforts. That’s…