Mentorđź’śMySister

Authentic Women, Authentic Resolve, Authentic Connection.

Category: On self esteem

  • “The voice of the mother is kind, soft, serene, nurturing, warm.   The voice of the mother is instructional, healing,  encouraging The voice of the mother watches out for her young, Tailors their lives on the path of hope.  The voice of the mother warns her babies of harm or danger of the need for…

  • Happiness has been a journey for me. I wrote this on my post today , and boy …was I surprised what I wrote! I didn’t expect to write about the “flavor” of my happiness. I laugh inside because I didn’t expect “Happiness” to have a flavor… (haha) … But it does! Happiness has a taste…

  • One of a kind. Friends are few and far between, & are hard to find. Above my friend Meg, and she’s pregnant and ready to deliver her child! (We just celebrated her little one is coming really soon!) It’s been real living in Tulsa Ok. We are headed to Rochester , N.Y. after nine years…

  • Looking Into The Windows of my Soul…

    Sometimes I look deeper.. Deeper within. ‘Cause I hope you know that Vulnerability is an eye to the window of your soul. I remember a time when I knew I had skills; yet I didn’t use them. I took no risks. It wasn’t until I began to “call myself a photographer, that I truly became…

  • Settling.

    Greener Pastures: (My post on Better Self-Worth& Esteem) Psalm 23:1 “The Lord is My Shepherd. I lack nothing.” I’m learning to appreciate everything these days….. And I am blessed to be able to be living in a place where I’ve been for seven years. It’s been a journey of acceptance; yet also esteem. Approximately 13…

  • Since this month I am  speaking about esteem…  and where it comes from  and how it’s developed, I wanted to share  my story on  how I personally developed  my confidence and esteem . It’s  a story of several  weaved into one,  but  they  all have   deep meaning.   My  story  doesn’t  begin here.. but I wanted…

  •  I Am  Enough Because I Am Wise. So what does it really mean to be wise? Does being wise mean… to be humble? Does it mean we should consult with someone else who has  good advice, can problem-solve, help us manage our lives better or may give good counsel? Or does it mean simply having…

  • Just sharing on how Happy People Are Healthy People! #NthabiHappy  Happy people  do healthy  activities.  Happy  people  care about  who they call “friends”. They make  good choices  about who they spend their time with , and if those people are not  encouraging or   uplifting, they detach.  Happy  people  enjoy  good company of  those who pour  goodness…

  • If you’d ask what’s the one thing that helps me to feel alive…its my hair.  I a absoooooolutely  love  having   locs that are free …MOST of the time, and  it  feels  good to   just have natural  hair that GOD made… and  see how the journey  helps me to be free  with the  growth…

  • I AM ENOUGH BECAUSE I AM AWARE.

    I decided to write a new series. I was in a  Celebrate Recovery group and  talking about feeling “helpless”. It was a process for me to discuss in group, because as soon as I  spoke about why I tend to feel worried and  procrastinate on some things, I realized that  This vulnerable space I often…