Mentorđź’śMySister

Authentic Women, Authentic Resolve, Authentic Connection.

Category: vulnerability

  • feelings . so important to feel. it helps you solve problems.

  • As I look back on my life, I’ve had my share of unhealthy relationships. I believe the hardest part during this season of life for me was discerning was what was really “healthy” and what was really “unhealthy”. I don’t really know that Ii had been taught that by example. I believe I was simply…

  • It’s so  very interesting how patience plays into our care of the soul. Almost two months ago, I left Tulsa Oklahoma, tense and overwhelmed and anxious. Across country moves just seem to impact me in that way. I’ve done two of them, in my lifetime. And as much as I plan to be calm and take…

  • Clarity. It’s not easy to achieve. I mean should we even make it a goal? When 2019 happened, I initially didn’t desire clarity. I asked for something else. In fact, that word is a slight misnomer now, because Clarity assumed its position and took a hold of my destiny like none other . “For sure,…

  • One of a kind. Friends are few and far between, & are hard to find. Above my friend Meg, and she’s pregnant and ready to deliver her child! (We just celebrated her little one is coming really soon!) It’s been real living in Tulsa Ok. We are headed to Rochester , N.Y. after nine years…

  • March 21, 2019 Hope. It’s so obscure sometimes. Like … how do you stay hopeful? Is it Friends that help you to remain hopeful? Is there a routine that’s involved? Is there something elusive about hope? Does a lack of it, make us cry? Make us sad? Is it reachable? How do you know when…

  • I wrote a psalm . My first psalm ever. I thought psalm writers had all died and gone to heaven. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I never knew I could be one of them. Psalmists don’t usually know they’re psalmists until they lamented and sorrowed about something mighty weighty. This was me after we lost our mother in law…

  • www.bible.com/1849/jas.1.5.tpt Oh what a wonderful word I stumbled upon today! I’m so grateful for the overwhelming, GRACIOUS love of God! When I don’t know what the heck I’m doing… it’s a GREAT opportunity to trust Him on another level and lean into His grace. Grateful that I don’t have to be or do anything more…

  • Chaplain Contemplations: Freedom.

    I was trying to think of what walking in my calling looks like. So I began to think about for the first time in my life, my ” heart feels full.” I mean, I get this full feeling sometimes to the point I cannot even explain the emotion, and then I emotionally feel as if…

  • What is your soul, actually? I was  speaking to someone the other day about how the  soul engages with the spirit, and why we  think  we may have been  given  it.  I  believe  the soul  is a part of who we are  because  we  have  volition – power  to make choices in life  that may …